ant-tor's blog

It is definitely growing!

Hi to all! Sad to admit, but I would say that wrestling outside actual championships seems to go downhill, thus dying a slow death because of the growing proportion of guys who only care about sex in the end... I understand that some can like sex, but there are places for them in so called "dating apps" which were created just on purpose. As a full-blown asexual, I only fight for what it is, so a sport. I would say that the close physical contact envolved by wrestling and other fighting sports is awesome, and it is definitely one of the things that make these sports so enjoyable. That being said, it seems most people value sex more than anything and assimilate wrestling as just some foreplay for some minutes before having sex afterwards, which is a shame. I can say that there are also lots of sex-related fantasies which spoil the sport aspect which are no more than boring, and turn-offs. As a former lover of the sport aspect of things, and the fact I just simply don't have the least interest for sex, I would come to the conclusion that the proportion of members here only looking for sport is not the majority after all, thus slowly but surely resulting on the downfall of actual wrestling outside of championships. Still, I hope it is not too late to reverse the trend, even if there is very little hope left for doing so, I assume it is still possible with some involvment, not necessarily from total asexuals as I am, but from members who at least don't care at all about sex while wrestling!

I luv sub-erotic, but if the chemistry is not there then just the sport is fine.

Agree it's dying. Deffo more about a sex hookup I think. I know admin says its growing but if this site took away the fighters part of its name it wouldn't make any difference. However ifbl the site took away anything sexual and was more about the sport, it would totally die a death

There's more profiles here in the UK so looks like it's growing. Now they just need to meet people....
Certainly meetkink and watch fighters have a lot of sexual stuff but there's still a lot of guys who want to wrestle without sex and I think that's increased too.

I agree with the sentiments here.
I am here to wrestle, a good hard sweaty match is all I need. If things turn naturally to getting hot and horny at the end that is a bonus... but it is not expected or promised.

There is a huge influx of guys joining here and thinking it is another Gridr (particularly since this site came out as an app) They bring the App attitude here with the coldness and rudeness that seems to go hand in hand with these pick up apps.
They don't post a pic, they don't fill out a profile description, many join and never log in again. This site is growing, the actual wrestling scene and community feel of the place is diminishing.

The best improvement this site could make is to clear out all profiles without a pic (after a grace period of a few months) and clear out members who have not had a single meet after being here several years.
If they want to chat about or fantasise about what they are too afraid to do they can head over to Chatfighters etc. Leave this place for the real guys!

Not a bad suggestion. Except the guys without a meet under the belt. It is hard to arrange one, especially here in the UK.

It's hard to understand how it is hard for UK or USA guys to meet, you are the bulk of the population here... but then I have no idea of your geography, and what limitations come with it.
But I live 2 hours out of the nearest city, so I travel 2 hours each way to have matches, I also save to go on wrestling trips to other countries.
If you want it you work for it, I certainly wouldn't have my 130+ past opponents sitting in my home town, I most likely would have zero!
So I still say if you are here a few years without a single match you don't really want one.

yes, I understand about the coldness , not the rudeness. I've been on both sides of it (the coldness). I think guys don't respond at all because they really don't want to wrestle that other person, and they don't know how to respond. Maybe they are afraid of hurting the other dudes feelings? I don't know, or maybe they think they are too great and the other person is not worth their time? I've experienced the coldness. But on the other hand, guys want to wrestle me or like my profile (but im not interested in meeting them ), and you respond just not to be rude, like say hi or thanks back, and they will be on you like white on rice, you give them hints that im not interested ,but they still (like some) almost stock you. lol
I almost have to go thru a thousand dudes just to get the right match, for various reasons, , mostly just flakes that are here for their egos. I know im not for everyone, and everyone is not for me, attraction is a big thing tho. Oh and another thing is they tell u they are too busy to wrestle (with work or life), so why do you post a profile and pics then, aren't you here to wrestle? at least temp. delete your account.

You are totally right, I can't agree more. Rude guys and sex maniacs are just like cancer on this website. And yes, they appear as fully bank profiles for the most part, not to say fake ones. They should just be banned after all, and the wrrestling scene on this website would be growing instead of dying... Not necessarily asexuals as I am, but guys interested in sport only are somewhat rare here it seems, but involvement of all of us (the sport community), can maybe help the website to be a better place regarding fighting sports. I know that reversing the trend seems highly unikely, but maybe there is still hope!