Novice wrestler, swim to keep in shape, into psychological control strategies, humiliation, honing skills, safe role play (ex: hostile businessmen take out aggressions while sharing motel room, father/son, hero/villain scenarios), cat and mouse games, trash talk, male bonding.. Safe and sane only, not into getting hurt. More into the mental and cerebral aspects of a match, countering the advances of an opponent through cunning and verbal/ non-verbal cues and communication. Like the ever-changing aspect of who is in control one minute, over-ruled and usurped by his partner the next. Versatility by both guys is stimulating and engaging to me. Full nelsons are my favorite hold, giving or receiving. I give great post-match massages.