First, i have been working out hard, and i have lost 120 pounds since august 2019. Im looking to hire a coach to help me keep up with my goals,, and teach me wrestling..
I am currently at 275, so i still have a long ways to go, but i am well on my way. My hope is to get to a point that a fit guy will want to wrestle me. I'm actually getting to a point in working out, where I would like to learn how to wrestle. I would love to hire a private wrestling coach, but where does a 40 year old chubby guy go about doing that?

Background: I used to wrestle with a buddy in college. He was on the wrestling team, and had a fetish for taking down bigger guys. I was just goofing around. We both considered ourselves to be straight, although he was the first to bring sexual consequences into the equation. The matches got pretty intense. Bets were made, rip and strip tactics used. He didnt like to lose, but neither did I. He had the training, but I had size on my side. He played rough, he went for the balls. It was good kinky times and I miss it. I found that even though i am straight, i have a big fetish for wrestling guys, and dominating as well as being dominated by guys. I am now 38, a businessman, and I am overweight, but I would love to experience it again.
Just to clarify, I'm not looking for someone to just rough me up. I intend to give an honest fight, and i want to play rough too. You have to overpower me to rough me up, and i expect the same from you. I'm not looking for someone who just wants to submit, but give an honest but dirty fight.