Gutpunching give/take/trade

Aftercare

midwestboxer (35 )

2021-02-18 오후 11:08

First off...great topic! I feel like this is an important but often overlooked step!

It really depends on my role in the session, generally I like to be the Dom/Top/Giver. If I'm in that role I take some time for myself after providing after care to my partner, having a drink and a cigar normally helps me come back to reality. If the scene was really intense I make sure to stay away from making major decisions for a few days, be more aware of my tone and how I interact with others. Dom drop tends to make me more aggressive and irritated if I don't make time to allow myself to level off.

General Info on Aftercare :

https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a29341534/sexual-aftercare/

https://www.lovense.com/bdsm-blog/aftercare

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jed7720 (13)

2021-02-19 오후 5:18

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well put. good advice and topic.

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Jojete (0 )

2021-02-19 오전 2:35

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Thanks for dropping those resources, I took for granted that the concept of aftercare isn't just inherently a part of all violence based communities.

Also your experience on the mental aspect of aftercare for the dom/giver is something I had never thought of, so thank you for sharing that.

I suppose it goes a lot farther than just belly rubs and cuddles.

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wa rassler (4)

2021-02-15 오후 11:26

I usually strip down (if I was wearing anything to begin with) and then get on the loser's chest and put my bruised, aching belly in their face. I force them to give me a massage with their mouth while I pour out some whiskey and have a few drinks to being the better man.

Once I get messed up, they might be able to beat me up in the next round. Or I might saddle up a second time. Hahaha

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Jojete (0 )

2021-02-15 오후 4:26

What kind of aftercare do you like after a good gutpunching session?

Share your favorite experiences!

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