Gutpunching give/take/trade

For me, I like being bruised for a week or so after. I also find a massive buzz in a complete stranger tying me up and being completely at their mercy.
As for flexed and unflexed, yes its possible to stay flexed for first few blows but if the guy is any good at throwing a punch he will soon break through that, which is what you want so your actually taking it and not resisting

Sounds dangerous to me. I hope your luck holds up and you never meet the wrong guy

Of course it's dangerous, anyone who thinks otherwise should not be involved with either taking or giving.

Dangerous as in it has inherently unavoidable risks, no matter how careful you are? Are you saying people should stay away from this gutpunching activity altogether?

That is NOT what I am saying. I was refering to allowing a stranger to tie you up.

Prickler, I was responding to the comment of "Work me over". (Click on the "In reply to this" link to see which message a response refers to; or switch to threaded view.)

Go with what you are comfortable with, and find an experienced devotee. They are out there, none advertise their presence but they are around. Start with a select inner circle and use references, always a good indication. All the guys and gals here are into something quite unique, so let's share our enjoyment in such a way as to make it a great experience all around.

If you have been doing this awhile, go easy on the new guys. Don't forget that we all get enjoyment out of this, so leave the attitude at the door. Work with your beginner, and let him/her decide how hard etc. That way future involvement is guaranteed. You are not likely to repeat something if it was a crappy experience for you.

Let's keep it sane, let's keep it safe. Enjoyment is the primary goal.

Well said. BTW there's data that taking punches unfixed does have some real potential dangers. Flexed, less so (aside from soreness).

-GR

Never let a guy tie you up if you don't know him or have a bad feeling about him. That could go very badly! You got some good advice from the guys here

Well many years ago I went and hooked up my first gut punch experience , I had no idea what I got into and I let him tie me down, man did he make me hurt for weeks after. Never again until you get to know each other well before getting tied .

Don't feel sorry for your decision, Poisson17. The most important thing is that you feel confident in yourself and trust your oponent. You will have other opportunities.

thanks for all youre great advice, as badly as i want to be punched, i did canceled the session,

I think it's good to cancel the meeting that you're not sure about your safety. Sure there will be someone you can go with

I don't think you have a safe plan there, and I worry that you will get injured.

Why don't you start with something less hardcore? Forget being tied, forget being blindfolded and especially forget unflexed. Start with something easy, playful and don't overdo it. DO NOT RELY ON THE OTHER GUY. He doesn't know you and won't know where your limit is. He simply can't because YOU don't know and he has no magical extrasensory powers!

When you have experience more experience, build on it and work toward what you have in mind now.

Thanks for your thoughts. As a beginner receiver at GP you have made me feel more confident and informed.

I agree with FighterGuyy, start slow and safe. With experience and trust in a regular puncher you can achieve the ideas you have. Gut punching is awesome, enjoy it ;)

thanks
i will :)

maybe that is better. i want to start slow and no blindfold or tied. and then will see. i did trampling before bet that went all right
thanks for the advice :)

Whatever YOU are comfortable with is what you should do. Don't feel compelled to do anything you don't want to. It's all about trusting the person you're with.

oke thanks. well start slow 👍🏻

I don't have much experience on GP but I've done a few. Just rely on your oponent's wishes and directions. You can agree on a safeword if you like. Something you or your oponent would never say when fighting each other. Once it is said, the bout is over.

I always prefer to start slow and gradually raise the pace of my punches till my oponent stops me. That way fun lasts longer. Needless to say I prefer actong like a heel and dishing out the punches, but I'm also very keen on competitive wrestling with body punches or exchanging the punches as well.

Just keep it all safe and sane and do not rush things out. Use your head, not your hart or your balls.

thanks. i do prefer to take punches.
im gonna be tied up and blindfolded.

Congratulation, hope your first session will be Great. Do You prefer to give or take punches ?

i have always been obsessed with gut punching. deep and unflexed.
now have i got myself a GP session for the first time, are there things that i need to know or things to be careful with. cause i like to go hard?
kind regards Colin

You've gotten some great advice on here which confirms for me what I've always felt; that most of the people on here, like at least 90%, are interested in having fun and a good time and are not interested in causing someone permanent injury or worse. My personal opinion is that you reconsider your decision to cancel the meeting. This would have been an excellent opportunity to learn how to negotiate terms and conditions with the other guy so you feel you have some control over the situation. Don't be afraid to tell him what your limits are; a guy who doesn't respect limits is not someone I would care to meet up with. Getting tied up the first time out with someone is not generally a good idea unless you have corresponded with him for a good while, like several months, to build up a level of trust. Ask him about restraints that you could easily get out of if you needed to, like loose-fitting leather cuffs. If this is part of your fantasy, by all means live it but do it with some planning and preparation beforehand. I think your experience will be better over all and you can learn a lot from it while having fun!

Great advice! And it took me awhile to trust anyone into having a fun gut punching event,again all because I let someone tie me down and pound the heck out of my navel..hurt and bruised for 2 weeks

The better shape you are in, the more punishment you can take. It takes less effort to tighten up and you can enjoy more and harder punches with less hurt, days afterwards. The worst beatings I have taken, i was only sore three days, but it was that good sore